We’ve all heard the cliché: "He’s playing chess while everyone else is playing checkers." It’s a metaphor for foresight and strategy, but in the world of modern business, it’s becoming something deeper. It’s the difference between seeing a person and seeing a transaction. The sad reality is that everyone is selling something. We are all participants in an economy where making a living is the baseline requirement for survival. Yet, as humans, we possess an innate radar for "the pitch." We can feel when we are being managed, processed, or funnelled. So, how do we remove the "core element" - the transaction, from what we do? The Cost vs. Service Paradox When you meet a professional, they generally lean into one of two camps: The Cost-Centric: They focus on the price, the discount, or the "deal." They are playing checkers, looking for the quickest path to the end of the board. The Service-Centric: They focus ...
I haven’t written in a while. That is a fact I am all too aware of. When a writer goes dark, the external world assumes the usual suspects: a packed schedule, a loss of "steam," or perhaps the arrival of some profound new knowledge that requires months of quiet percolation. But the truth is often less cinematic and much more human. The short answer is no; I didn’t run out of time, and I didn’t run out of ideas. I just wasn’t ready. The Judgmental Reflection Writing is one of the few activities that forces you to stand directly in front of a mirror. Not the kind of mirror you glance at to check your hair before a listing appointment or a meeting, but a raw, judgmental mirror. When you sit down to put thoughts to paper or fingers to keyboard, you are doing more than sharing information. You are laying yourself bare. You are taking the internal architecture of your mind and inviting the world to walk through it. We do this in the hope of resonance; we want someone to see the w...