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New beginnings are scary. They’re thrilling, yes, but they also ask us to close chapters we once thought were permanent. They demand courage, not just to start, but to let go. And letting go isn’t always dramatic; it’s often quiet, personal, and deeply emotional. For me, writing has always been a passion. It’s how I process, persuade, and connect. It’s the thread that’s stitched meaning into my work, my relationships, and my reflections. That’s not ending. But something new is beginning. I’m adding a voice to the page, a literal one. We’re starting a podcast. Now, almost anyone can start one. That’s true. But here’s my argument: my worldview isn’t a carbon copy of the next person’s. It’s shaped by stories, scars, and strategies that deserve to be heard. I’ve spent years negotiating, storytelling, and listening. And if I can share what I know, and my partner brings their own lens to the table, I believe we’ll find an audience that resonates. Still, it’s scary. It feels like we’re steppi...

Weep not for roads untraveled, nor for the one that got away. These words often echo in the quiet corners of our minds, moments of reflection on paths not taken, chances missed, or dreams deferred. In today’s fast-evolving world, many liken new opportunities like AI to the cryptocurrency wave of years past. The comparison is apt: both arrived cloaked in uncertainty, promising transformation but demanding courage. But what prompts us to reflect on missed opportunities? A well-read colleague once quoted Shakespeare to me: “Things without all remedy should be without regard.” It struck me. Perhaps the real tragedy isn’t the missed opportunity, but the paralysis that precedes it, the fear of the unknown that keeps us from leaping. When opportunity does arrive, it rarely wears a name tag. It often feels like a disaster waiting to happen. I know this firsthand. I took a leap of faith into real estate with no backup plan. No safety net. No guarantees. And I’m not here to tell you ...

In the world of real estate, the “sold” sign is often treated as the final punctuation mark in a successful transaction. The ink dries, the keys change hands, and we move on to the next listing. But in our rush to celebrate closure, we risk overlooking the most vital part of the process, the echo that follows the sale. That echo is feedback. Feedback is not a courtesy. It is the compass by which we navigate improvement. It is the mirror that reflects not just what we did, but how it was received. Like a finely crafted watch, our service is made up of many moving parts: negotiation, presentation, empathy, and timing. Remove even one cog, however small, and the entire mechanism falters. Feedback is that cog. Without it, we operate blind, assuming that silence equals satisfaction. In my experience, feedback is the lifeblood of excellence. It’s how we evolve from being transactional agents to transformational advisors. It’s how we move from selling properties to building legacies. And ye...

Every morning, the alarm rings. We rise, dress, and step into the rhythm of routine. But beneath the surface of this daily choreography lies a deeper question—one we rarely ask aloud: Why do I go to work? Why do I do what I do? Some answer quickly: “I work for my family.” “I must provide for those who depend on me.” These are noble truths—anchors of responsibility and love. Others say, “I love what I do.” But let us be honest: that answer is rare. And yet, it is the one that transforms obligation into inspiration. So how do we get there? How do we move from  must  to  meaning ? It’s Not Just About the Money We’ve all seen it people earning well, yet feeling hollow. And others earning modestly, yet radiating joy. Clearly, fulfillment isn’t found in the paycheck alone. It’s found in  mastery , in becoming good at what you do.  The Power of Progress Think back to a time you tried something unfamiliar. It was awkward. Frustrating. You weren’t p...

Yesterday, I played golf. Not just a casual round, I played my first full 18 holes. And somewhere around hole 9, I was ready to quit. The sun was relentless. My swing was inconsistent. My energy was fading. I looked at the remaining holes and thought, “Why am I doing this?” But then something unexpected happened: I didn’t quit. Not because the course got easier. It didn’t. Not because I suddenly became Tiger Woods. I didn’t. I kept going because of the people around me. Fellow colleagues, each with their own goals and frustrations, offered encouragement when my spirit dipped. A fist bump after a decent drive. A laugh after a disastrous putt. A shared nod of “we’ve got this” when the fairway felt endless. Their support turned a solo struggle into a shared journey.  The Psychology of Perseverance Golf is often described as a mental game, and it truly is. Every hole is a fresh challenge. Every swing demands focus. Every mistake lingers longer than it should. But what I l...

We often talk about homes in square meters, coordinates, or market value. But when someone whispers “I just need a place to rest”,  they’re not asking for a roof; they’re asking for sanctuary. A home is more than bricks, beams, and boundary walls. It’s the place where your spirit exhales. Where your guard drops, and you don’t have to rehearse your presence. A true home isn’t bought. It’s found.   What Does “Rest” Really Mean in the Property World? In the whirlwind of open houses, brochures, and budget calculations, rest often gets lost in the noise. But it’s quietly at the center of every search. Rest is emotional real estate. It’s the ability to feel safe, inspired, and accepted without performing. Rest is legacy-minded. It’s the place that holds your stories, your laughter, your scars, all without judgment. Rest is location-agnostic. Whether nestled in the quiet of Borrowdale or perched above the hills of Glen Lorne, rest isn...

"Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life." It’s a quote that drips with optimism. It decorates motivational posters, graduation speeches, and LinkedIn bios. But in truth? It’s more poetic than practical and potentially misleading.  Passion Doesn’t Cancel the Grind Loving your craft doesn’t eliminate stress, deadlines, or the mental load that comes with responsibility. Work. Even meaningful work requires energy, discipline, and resilience. Whether you're negotiating the sale of a million-dollar estate or crafting a blog post that moves hearts, there’s labour behind the magic. Creative work demands emotional energy, and that's still labour. Passion can fuel burnout if boundaries aren’t in place. Not every task is thrilling -  admin, client disputes, rejection emails. Still part of the game.  The Psychology Behind the Fallacy This idea that passion nullifies effort is often weaponised against people who struggle...